Don’t Settle Between Your Child And Your Ex-partner

Unfortunately, not all relationships last, and many couples with children also end up getting rid of. The difference is a difficult place not only for the parents, but also for the child, whose life changes completely with the difference. It is important that neither parent settles between the child and their ex-partner, as the child still has the right to maintain a relationship with both parents.

Whatever the reasons for the divorce, and no matter how bad the other party considers his or her former partner, the child should not be denied the opportunity to spend time with both parents. Separately, of course, are those situations where one of the couple’s parties is, for one reason or another, a bad parent and a danger to the child.

Fulfill your role as a mother, but don’t try to take care of the responsibilities of two parents

As a mother, you are one of the most important people for the well-being of your children, but you are not the only person who is important to children. The other parent of your children – even though he is no longer your former partner – is just as important to your children. She also has to take care of the children’s financial well-being, mental and physical well-being, education and protection.

If it’s your job to wake the kids up in the mornings, prepare breakfast for them, and make sure they’re wearing clean clothes, maybe another parent can take the kids to daycare and school and pick them up from there at the end of the day.

So let the other parent of your children share the responsibilities with you. Let the children enjoy time together with their other parent while you do something completely different than take care of the children. You certainly don’t want to be solely responsible for educating, caring for, and entertaining children – you certainly don’t want to be their only source of love and quality time.

However, if the situation adversely affects the health or well-being of the children, i.e. if the other parent is not a good role model, the matter is different. If this is not the case, however, do not come up with excuses or obstacles as to why children should not spend time with both their parents.

The fact that you now live in different homes and that your relationship no longer exists does not mean that your children together should suffer from the absence of the other parent.

What do you and your ex-partner need to get ahead?

Even though you and your ex-spouse are now divorced, and the person you previously called your partner is no longer the father or mother of your children, you have no right to interfere in the relationship between your children and your ex-partner – unless the situation is harmful to children, as we already mentioned.

You should not want to hurt or hurt the person you loved before, and this should in no way be done in front of the child or in ways that negatively affect the child. Remember that even if you no longer form a core family, you have a common goal — a priority that unites you for the rest of your life.

So look for a way for you and your ex-spouse to be reconciled to ensure the balance and happiness of your children’s emotional lives. These tips can help you here:

• Both parents should take responsibility for the upbringing of their children.

• Never be disrespectful to another parent of children, especially in front of children.
• Neither of you should talk bad about the other in the presence of children.
• Your parents should listen to your children’s opinions and feelings.
• You need to show your children that even though the parents are divorced, both of them still love the children really much and will continue to support them.
• Never put children in the middle of a dispute you and your ex-partner have about adult matters.
• Never use your child as a weapon to attack another.