Being A Girl’s Mother Means A Lifelong Partnership

The day you were born I stopped being my mother’s daughter and started being my daughter’s mother. That day life started for you… and I started a new life.

I have always believed that being a woman is a huge privilege. Being a woman is also a dichotomous experience, full of the ups and downs of emotional life.

However, being a mother is always an eye-opening experience, overflowing and surprising. We will encounter a “new self” within us that we did not know existed before.

Congratulations, it’s a girl!

Being a daughter’s mother means that the little one you hold in your arms will upset your peace, disrupt your sleep, and fill your life with tenderness and sensitivity.

That little baby grows into a girl who is incredibly strong, whether she likes pink or not. His DNA has the ability to love and hate with the same intensity.

He is strong at a level that transcends the physical.

You will be overwhelmed with emotion when you see your daughter laughing and crying, almost at the same time.

You see her being caring, sweet and flirtatious without even knowing how she has learned to act this way.

One day you will see him hugging his teddy bears. Next, he jumps into mud puddles, chocolate around his mouth.

Every single day you see a new side to his personality. You will be amazed to see how he reminds you more and more every day.

One day, sooner than you know, he wants to be like you. She will wear your shoes, necklace and makeup. She falls in love with her father, but her first example of being a woman is you.

Maybe he gets angry when you hug or kiss his father. But his first friend, his trust and comfort are you.

You may be surprised that the connection with your daughter is so strong and intimate that you immediately recognize each other as equal.

Your closeness comes from the understanding between the two of you. You both know how dramatic, capricious, intelligent, and stubborn women can be.

Putting the love between mother and daughter into words is a difficult task. Just thinking about it makes me emotional and raises tears in my eyes.

Being a daughter’s mother is a blessing. Your daughter will be your best friend, forever. There is no going back.

Every one of his gestures, words, or reactions contains a part of you.  Buying her first dresses and pink clothes will be a moving memory for her.

What does it mean to be a daughter’s mother?

Here are some tips for getting along with your partner:

• Always read with her and choose stories where women play an important role so she doesn’t think someone’s opportunity in life is beyond her reach.
• When he is worried about something, sit down and talk to him on the edge of his bed. Such a close, face-to-face connection comforts him.
• If you find that he always gives in to his friends, teach him that he is allowed to express his opinion. This is how he learns to hold his own.

Knowing how girls usually function and learn and what attitudes arouse her will help you better understand your daughter and teach her in the best possible way.

If you are pregnant with a baby girl, I want you to know that you will become the mother of a new woman and you are already the mother of a beautiful princess.

I hope you always find the right words to touch her heart no matter how old she is.

Hopefully he finds his strongest ally in you, whether he wants to play together, get permission from his father, or sit down to have coffee to heal the world.

Be an example to your daughter and she will be your lifelong partner.