You Are Your Baby’s Home – Now And In The Future

You are the home of your baby, his small and magical universe.  You are the source of a child’s food and endless affection, and your arms are his refuge. You are everything to your child in everything.

Thanks to your child, your life will be filled with happiness, hopes, dreams, and feelings you have never experienced.

According to LiveScience , motherhood is a unique and exceptional experience for many reasons. A woman doesn’t even realize how many internal changes motherhood brings. Our bodies, our brains, and our worldviews are changing.

It is important to remember that becoming a parent is a special time for a man as well. The future father also becomes sensitive during his partner’s pregnancy, realizing that soon he will be allowed to keep a new little start in life in his arms.

These changes – as strange as they sound – do not always bring sheer joy and happiness.

Mary Kimmel, a professor of psychology at the Chapel Hill School of Medicine at the University of North Carolina and head of the Psychiatry Unit during pregnancy, also signs this idea. Kimmel says many women feel fear during pregnancy. A woman may question whether she is able to handle all the responsibilities that a child brings with her and her own personal and financial stability.

A woman may also worry about whether the relationship with the child’s father will last. A woman may wonder if she and the child can trust their family as well as the support provided by friends.

The knowledge that we are the whole world to our child fills us with joy and confusion. Sometimes this same thought can cause us anxiety and anxiety. It is important to understand that these thoughts are completely normal, logical, and even very common.

Having a child not only means responsibility, it also requires courage. The courage to face life even in difficult times, for you are your baby’s home, a haven, and his connection to the world.

I am your child and formed in you – I feel your feelings, so don’t be afraid

There is no reason to fear the future.  Your present – here and now – is full of happiness and hope. Don’t let your fears and insecurities weigh on your heart. The stress experienced by the expectant mother also affects the fetus’s serenely peaceful habitat, the uterus. Excessive cortisol in the mother’s blood also fills the amniotic fluid surrounding the developing baby.

The food we eat is not the only thing that affects the fetus that grows inside us. Also, what you feel and experience, as well as things you laugh at or cry about, will reach like a child growing in your womb like an echo. These things are like invisible nutrients or affections that are present in a child’s development at every stage of pregnancy.

Mom, remember that your child wants you to be happy. He wants you to wake up every day full of dreams, ideas and hopes. Your child wants you to be ready and eager to face new challenges.

Your child knows you; you are brave and you can do anything. She sees a beautiful woman who knows what she wants and what she doesn’t want for her future beloved child.

Never forget the importance of taking care of yourself, your feelings, and your mental well-being. By taking care of yourself, you are at the same time doing service to your child.

You are your baby’s home now and in the future

It is often said that a mother carries her baby in her womb for 9 months, in her arms for three years and in her heart forever. 

You are your baby’s home – you have had it in the past and you will have it in the future. Such an idea does not make you an overprotective mother or a mother-child relationship toxic.

The best home is one whose doors are always open. It is a home where residents can come and go as they please. And they are also always welcome back.

However, as a parent, it is important to remember that this home is never as important as when the child is small. The strongest bonds are built during a child’s early years.

The first years of a child’s life are often referred to as ectopic life. At this point, the baby needs physical intimacy from his mother more than at any other stage of life. Our skin, our ironing, and our words form an invisible “uterus” for our child as he or she continues to develop.

As he learns to move, the child steps into freedom and independence.

Don’t forget that even if a child doesn’t know how to put his or her thoughts into words, you are everything to him or her. You are the source of his nourishment and warmth, the lap on which you fall asleep, and the breast against which you grow and develop.

So be sure to take care of yourself. Be happy and brave, be the kind of person your child loves and deserves.